I am leaving tomorrow morning for a week long trip to Beaumont. I have to stay in a hotel for a whole week, completely alone, so lonely! Ayasha some times thinks that I like to go out of town because it is kinda like a vacation, in that I get off work everyday are nearly 3pm, I don't have to pick any kids up at the babysitters, I don't have to pick up Ayasha from work, I can watch TV all night and I don't have to watch any the kids, change their diapers, discipline them or put them to bed. Going out of town on business is NOT vacation! While I do like the slower pace that sometimes come from being out of town, I would much rather be at home with my family, I really miss the kids when I am out.
An another note, the kids have been really difficult lately. They haven't paid attention to any of our directions lately. Its been really hard on Ayasha and myself lately. They just keep pushing, and pushing and pushing until we blow up and start yelling, and at that point, everyone knows they don't pay attention to what you are saying anymore. Sophia has been the ring leader. Kyra's only issue is being in a bad mood very often, she at least listens to directions when she is by her self. Sophia keeps pushing the envelope here and we need some help. What are some good ways that you guys got through this stage with your kids?
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As for the vacation, why don't you make it a family one and take Ayasha and the girls with you some time? Regarding the discipline, that's a tough one. My advice? You've got to keep your patience and follow through with whatever you tell them. And, if you think this stage is hard, wait til they're 14! You'll think this was easy!
ReplyDeleteWe just got back from vacation in colorado, when I go out of town it is for buissnes, and Ayasha has to work.
ReplyDeleteSome kids are harder than others. You just have to figure out what gets their attention and use that as a weapon. Maybe its taking away privileges or maybe a toy. Its not easy and it gets harder as they get older so 'control' is the order of the time.
ReplyDeleteEveryone is right when they say it gets harder. SO true. You will have to bring them to Grandma's house when she gets out of school. That might be enough to take a breather.
ReplyDeleteSMART is the word of the day. You have to be smarter than Sophia. I know it's hard. Kids are VERY smart.
Take some time out for yourself. You can think a lot easier when you are removed from the situation a little bit. Be patient. Hope this helps. Good luck!
When does Grandma get out of school? Because the kids will be coming you way that day!
ReplyDeleteWell, I relate very well to your situation. Madilynne pushes and pushes. Just stay calm it's hard but they seem to react worse when you get angry.
ReplyDeleteI like duct tape. That always works for me. :) Actually, I don't know because Mercedes isn't old enough to do most of that stuff yet. She's still just rolling around. Good luck though and I'll be paying attention to what everyone answers. (I am Dallin's wife by the way.)
ReplyDeleteI am convinced that every child is different and the same thing won't work on every kid. I have learned that you HAVE to stick with what you say...If you say NO, then no means no....no matter what. Tough stuff discipline is.
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